No one hates drama more than I do. My way of dealing with it is to cut it off at the knees and move on. Is that the best way of doing things? I don't know but up till now I have found it to be the most successful way of handling it. I'm an adult, not only that I'm an older adult. This does mean I'm pretty much set in my ways.
This doesn't mean I can't see things in other ways. I just know that turning a blind eye to it will not make it go away. In truth it only grows and gets worse as time progresses. You see drama takes on a life of it's own when it comes to people's feelings.
I don't like it when people get their feelings hurt. I especially don't have any patience with bullies. I especially have issues with know it all people who think they are more illuminated than others. Are you serious. You want to what? You come bouncing in here thinking you're God's gift and you're going to put us on the straight and narrow the way you see it. Bite me.
Yes I'm rating again. You see this is something I try not to do in the real world and sometimes it builds up in me and it comes spewing out like a gushing well of high pressure hot air that has been trapped in a vacuum sealed pit in the hottest bowls of hell. Fortunately when recently faced with dealing with such a situation I managed to hold my cool for the most part but went volcano later. No I didn't actually go off on anyone but I did get short with someone I love dearly and for that I'm sorry.
It's hard for most people to understand me and very few do. You see I'm an extremely motherly person. I not only consider my family and friends as all a part of my family but as my children as well. When one of them hurts I hurt. You hurt my children and I go into fight mode. I watched several of my children get hurt recently and it finally built up too much steam and it had to go somewhere.
I know there are calmer voices and they have all the best intentions in the world. Sometimes however you have to let out that steam. You have to be willing to take a stand and move past it. If that means you take the direct approach then you take it because only in facing the things that challenge you do you succeed. Yes there's a good chance you'll end up getting your butt kicked but that's the chance you take when you face a world that too often is filled with bullies and other obstacles.
I wouldn't change the calmer voice for nothing in the world because mine keeps me from going off the tracks too often and too far. I love her and I hope she knows that. You know who you are hon and I wouldn't have you any other way. I will remain the volcano and you remain the calmer voice and maybe we will get through the obstacles of this world together.